Monday, November 29, 2010
Phil Spector's 'A Christmas Gift for You' a dynamite holiday album
Friday, November 26, 2010
Thankful for family, friends
Thanksgiving is a wonderful time of year. I hope everybody reading this had an opportunity to spend time with loved ones and enjoy the holiday.
Thanksgiving can mean different things to different people, but most of all, it should be about thanking God for the ways He has blessed our lives.
I know times are tough for many. It is difficult to see a silver lining in the dark clouds that sometime float in and out of our lives. However, if we will just pause for a moment we can see His hand at work.
The last few days I have been reflecting on how thankful I am for the family I have. 'Family'can be defined in many ways, and most of us think of our parents or siblings or spouses when it comes to our family.
Indeed, I am grateful for my immediate family. With so much isolation and loneliness in the world, it is nice to have people to which I can cling.
From a sociological point of view, isolation and loneliness may be the two greatest challenges our world faces. More and more people barricade themselves in their homes because we have all become so self-sufficient.
Then, we start experiencing emptiness in our hearts, and it is difficult to make it go away. Almost like a living organism, it grows, and it aches.
Unfortunately, some go down destructive paths to soothe this pain. Drug and alcohol abuse are all too common whether it happens in a big city or smaller communities like
When confronted with this emptiness, the challenge is how to deal with it in a positive way. Perhaps the most positive way is to focus on the definition of 'family' stated at the beginning of this column.
The definition I provided earlier is incomplete. A family is not just people who share the same flesh and blood. A family can include a wide variety of people that share a common bond.
For example, I have been reflecting recently on my church family.
For many, going to church has been watered down to a ritualistic exercise that people go through because they feel they have to.
Because of this, the experience of going to church does not develop into what it could be. While the main purpose of attending church is to worship, it is also important because it gives people the opportunity to be with each other.
It allows people to develop relationships that can be life changing. Much like our immediate families, these relationships can carry us when we need to be carried. Conversely, these people can be an outlet for us when we want to share the joys of life.
These circumstances can be profound or sometimes just plain silly.
Earlier this month, about 50 people from my church family attended a Nashville Predators hockey game. The game was thrilling, but the joy of the night was all of us spending a night out on the town.
It was an experience we will all carry for a long time, and it will remain a source of funny stories.
Of course, none of these stories will include me because I was a perfect gentleman the entire time. Trust me, nobody got anything on me.
The bottom line is that we all need each other. As the holiday season unfolds, let’s all be sensitive to those around us who may need a little kindness in their life.
The holiday season has become commercialized almost to the breaking point in recent years. Maybe the best gift we can provide others is to let them know how we feel about them and that we care.
We were born to love one another.
So, why don't we do it?
Monday, November 22, 2010
Happy Thanksgiving from 'The Nightly Daily'
The Nightly Daily is taking a break to enjoy the Thanksgiving holiday. Expect new postings on or around Monday, November 29.
Thanksgiving is an important holiday. Though food and football are fun, make sure to spend time reflecting on how God has blessed your life on Thursday (or every day). Even in tough times, He is here.
As for this blog, I am thankful for those of you who spend time reading it. I enjoy doing this as a hobby, but I hope it adds something positive to your life.
Happy Thanksgiving to all.
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Haiti needs a break
Though it is not quite Thanksgiving, it is not too early to start looking ahead to 2011. A new year is supposed to be a time of new beginnings, and I truly want this to be the case for
Back in January, the country received a massive earthquake that killed 250,000 and left one million homeless. Almost a year later, thousands still live in tent cities and the conditions are difficult.
The basic necessities of life are a luxury there, and the effort to rebuild will last for years.
In October, disease was the big news coming out of the country. Because of the circumstances, an outbreak of cholera occurred that killed hundreds.
I won't be too graphic, but cholera is an acute, infectious disease characterized principally by serious intestinal disorders caused by bacterium. I am not a doctor so if any readers disagree with that definition take it up with Webster's Dictionary.
Then, earlier this month,
I heard some experts refer to the storm as a 'minimal hurricane.' I do not know what to make of that term. How can a hurricane be minimal?
I know hurricanes can widely vary when it comes to intensity, but to call one minimal seems to be a slap in the face of the people suffering through it.
After all, if Tomas had dumped 15 inches of rain on my house, I do not think I would have described it as 'minimal.' I would have probably used a lot more graphic adjectives when talking about my plight. And some of those adjectives could not be printed in this column.
The personal impact these circumstances are having must be enormous. Though the
The culture there was already financially poor before the earthquake, and their meager way of life was smashed to smithereens in only a few minutes. Since then, many have spent months in those tent cities.
Imagine how the news of the hurricane must have impacted them. They had survived the earthquake and were still dealing with the cholera. Then, they got the message that a hurricane was coming.
I do not know when a person reaches a breaking point, but that had to have been one for a lot of the people there. The hurricane season ends on November 30 so let us hope that ends the threat of severe storms for a while.
As for the rest of us, what more can we do regarding
If nothing else, we should make a pledge to not forget about these people.
When the earthquake happened in January, it was a front-page story for weeks. Then, as time passed, it faded into the background.
Poor people often get the shaft when it comes to focusing on their problems. As
I have nothing personal against Ms. Lohan. I hope she straightens out her life.
Still, it is frustrating to watch someone make a career out of mayhem while so many other people suffer in darkness.
What are our priorities? We can either continue to focus on the frivolous or dedicate our lives to issues that really matter.
The choice is up to you.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Quotes of the day
"Me carrying a briefcase is like a hot dog wearing earrings." -- Former Detroit Tigers and Cincinnati Reds manager Sparky Anderson.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Returning to reality: Politics, Christianity, and the world
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Tiger Woods vs. Mickey Mantle: Why the double standard regarding their personal lives?
Recently, a new book was released that studies the life and times of baseball great Mickey Mantle. The Last Boy: Mickey Mantle and the End of America's Childhood by Jane Leavy is an exhaustive analysis of Mantle's life on and off the field. I have only read excerpts of the book, but based on the reviews I have read, it appears to be an excellent book.
There is no question that Mantle is a baseball legend, and a compelling argument can be made that he is one of the top five players of all time. However, the topic of this posting deals with his personal life. His personal life has been scrutinized many times going all the way back to the book Ball Four in 1970. His alcoholism, womanizing, and other inappropriate behavior have been thoroughly examined.
When comparing his personal life to golfer Tiger Woods, I cannot find much difference except in one major area. The big difference is how the behavior of the two has been presented to the public. Mantle's escapades have been presented to us with a wink. Sure, it has been reported to us, but often with a disclaimer that Mantle's shenanigans took place in a different era. The media did not report about player's personal lives then, and it was not much of a public issue. After all, boys will be boys.
Even when the scrutiny on his personal life intensified after his retirement from baseball, the criticism bounced off Mantle like he was wearing Teflon. People did not seem to care because he was 'The Mick.' He was their childhood hero, and it was a lot easier to embrace the legend instead of the truth.
When it comes to professional prowess, Tiger Woods is a lot like Mantle in that they were both prodigies. Still in the prime of his career, Woods is already considered one of the two greatest golfers of all time.
The similarities between the two carried into their personal lives. Woods repeatedly cheated on his wife. He behaved like a cad just like Mantle. He had access to the privileges of making the big time and exploited just about all of it.
For Woods, his treatment when his transgressions were made known was quite different compared to Mantle. The media that had winked at Mantle's decisions attacked Woods like a bull attacks a red cape. The media has hid behind the tired argument that times have changed, and that Woods is fair game.
Of course, that is a load of baloney. The primary reason Mantle was protected (and still continues to be) was because he was a
Woods, on the other hand, was ground into raw meat by many of the same publications that had protected Mantle. The hypocrisy here is thick and fair-minded people should understand the abuses that have happened here.
Please do not misunderstand. The point of this posting is not to defend Tiger Woods in any way. He made his mistakes and has paid dearly for them. Also, the point here was not to exploit Mantle's mistakes.
It is that we all need to be very careful when we get served stories like the one involving Tiger Woods. The media outlets that sanctimoniously criticize the behavior of some people often protect people who do the same thing simply because they like them.
This has been a cynical posting. I plead guilty to that.
However, Woods remains a pariah, and Mantle a golden boy.
And that does not seem right.
Monday, November 8, 2010
The Rolling Stones 'Let It Bleed' remarkable in some ways, confusing in others
Resource material: 1001 Albums You Must Hear Before You Die; The Rolling Stone Album Guide; The Rolling Stone Illustrated History of Rock and Roll; ‘Knocked Out Loaded’ by Bob Dylan; The Essentials (Unpublished)
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Turning a political page
We can all come out of hiding now because our latest political election is finished. The assault on our senses will ease up for a while.
There will be no more automated phone calls that interrupt us during dinner (at least for a while).
When we return home in the evening, our mailboxes will not be stuffed with items in which political candidates deal dirt about the people they are running against. Study after study has shown that negative campaigning turns voters off, but it seems most of the candidates this time around did not get the memo on that.
We will be able to read our favorite newspapers and watch the evening news without hearing about the results of the latest polls. I get sick of polls. Polls can be useful, but they are overemphasized in elections. I think 68 percent of us understand that.
Of course, the analysis of what transpired Tuesday will be endlessly re-hashed for the next few weeks. In
In general, voters said they wanted change and that is what they got. The U.S. House of Representatives now has a Republican majority, while the Democratic majority in the Senate got smaller.
Wanting change is a common refrain from voters but sometimes voters do not know what kind of change they want. In 2008, President Barack Obama earned the White House by promising change, and after trying to do that for two years, voters sent the president a message by sending more Republicans to
Voters are in a difficult spot when it comes to wanting change. I believe voters genuinely want that, but they do not trust either major party enough to give them total control.
Two years ago, when Obama was elected, voters sent strong Democratic majorities to Congress. However, that has all changed now.
As much as voters want change, they seem to find more security in gridlock. Mark these words, within three months after the new politicians take office in January, there will be disparaging remarks from both Democrats and Republicans about the inability to make progress.
Gridlock will be back with a capital 'G.'
After all, by splitting the party in charge in Congress, the process in which matters will be addressed will be slowed down.
However, the public does want gridlock in some ways. I think people feel if there is gridlock then all that is going to take place in
Though this phenomenon may seem confusing, it really is not. As much as people say they want change, actually changing can be very scary. Change brings uncertainty. It is the opposite of security.
We may have been able to get away with this in previous decades, but we can not now. The challenges we face are too daunting. Gridlock can no longer help bring security.
At some point, we are going to have to hold our noses and make difficult choices. Each generation says it wants to leave our country better than they found it. We say we want to leave our country better so today’s children can have a better life than we had.
If nothing else, we need to make this our country's rallying cry now. The national debt is $13 trillion and getting bigger. We can’t spend our way out of the problems we currently have.
If we do not change our current path, our nation’s best years may have already passed.
The